
Hey There
I'm so happy you're here! I'm on a journey to revolutionize society by teaching Black women how to never settle again by redefining their relationships and prioritizing their pleasure.
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Will you join me?
Amber's Story
I grew up in a home where we didn’t talk about our problems. We weren’t really even allowed to admit we had them. And we weren’t really allowed to change course if something wasn’t working for us, we just had to work harder to figure it out.
I was taught to push down my own emotions. I was taught that I had to act a certain way to be palatable and acceptable for others. I was taught that it was my duty to care and serve for those around me. I was taught that putting myself last made me a good person. I was taught to be grateful for what I got because at least I got something. I was taught that I needed a man to complete me. I was taught that I have to work twice as hard And can only expect half as much. I was taught to hide the parts of myself that stuck out so that I could better fit in. I was taught to question my worth and my enoughness
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Those lessons led me to being an incredible student. Not speaking out, not causing trouble. Doing my absolute damnedest to be the best and excel. Declining what I wanted to do what was “right“. I went to school, got great grades, went to college on scholarship and again got great grades. Met a man that said he loved me and believed that was enough to commit my life to him, because that's what you're supposed to do. After graduating, I immediately got a goodt job at Microsoft making great money. And at that job, I worked really hard. I excelled really fast even doubling my salary in four years. My reviews were glowing, and my team loved me. But I wasn’t happy. Because I felt lied to. I did everything 'right' And I wasn’t even happy.
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Unlearning is what led me to true joy. Unlearning gave me space to learn that the most important person in my life is me. And I deserve to put me first. Unlearning taught me that my pleasure is a revolutionary act because it’s how I free myself from the shackles of everything I was previously taught.
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So as the true rebel I am, I burnt everything down to build my life back up exactly how I wanted it. I quit my job, divorced my ex, cut off toxic friends and family members. Now I work with who I want to, live where I want to, be in relationship with who I want to, live how I want to, simply because I want to, and I've never felt more powerful or at peace.
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I am my own first testimony. I do this work now because I’ve lived it and continue to live it. I know what it takes to walk this path and I know how to help you go further faster with a significantly more fun and easeful journey along the way.. And that’s not to say that there won’t be pain on this road because we can’t have pleasure without it. But I teach you how to hold the duality and capitalize at every angle.
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It's my mission to help others gain freedom through the revolution of pleasure. I help them restructure their lives at their own pace and rework every relationship they have to be supportive of them and their dreams and their goals. I help my clients improve the quality of their lives and how fulfilled they feel in them by reorienting them to be in alignment with their joy
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It'd be my pleasure to work with you